政府的惠民计划~~~

从今天4月1号起，凡事有意注册结婚的新人，都必须前往国民登记局索取注册表格（JPN.KC02）。然后将填妥后的表格交给当局。而当局会将表格贴在布告栏上21天，如果没有接到任何异议，当局便会通知新人前往领取表格或选择日期在该局进行注册。

以此推算，新人从凌阙表格到完成注册，必须花至少3天时间（前往领取填写表格，拿取经审查表格或选择注册日期，办理注册）！真是‘方便’啊~~

私人注册所混乱
非政府的婚姻注册所，包括华人社团，神庙，教堂及兴都教，一般上提供“一站式”婚姻注册服务，以往新人可直接上门索取及填写表格，宣誓，选择注册日期，并在注册日当天出席即可。

然而，新措施是喜人必须到国名登记局索取表格，宣誓，再找有关注册官索取信函（证实自已在非政府婚姻注册所进行注册），再将信函带去登记局背书，重返注册所安排注册日期。

华人传统习俗恐失传
凡事社团或宗教团体的助理婚姻注册官在位新人办理注册手绩时，都会向他们讲解华人婚礼由更深的了解和尊重，且一些团体更会举行习俗文化展，但国名登记局都没有这种服务。

旧措施不仅可以为注册人省缺不少麻烦，也有助减轻国家登记局的工作。虽然该局每星期仅有一天是办理婚姻注册事宜，但大部分人为了方便，都会选择到邻近的社团或宗教团体，所以到该局的新人一天内只有10多对。

一些人为了避免一来（领取表格）一回（再到社团或宗教团体注册）浪费时间。便会选择直接在国家登记局办理注册，这不只加重当局工作，也造成人龙排队等候，引发民怨。

私生子恐暴增
社会与宗教团体的助理婚姻注册官认为，为了避免国民登记的麻烦，有些人将不愿注册，以致制造更多地私生子的问题。在此情况下，一旦男方过世，女方与孩子将因没有合法婚姻的保障，而失去应有的生活资助。

据了解，目前全国私生子有9万多，相信将随着新措施的实行而暴增。

当局是为了要取得ISO认证，而严管每项措施，因为当局发现有助理婚姻注册管，没有把注册人填妥的注册表格呈上国家登记局审查，即发出结婚证书给注册人。当局也发现有人伪造印花税固本(20令吉），从中牟利。

文取自5月4日的《光明日报》

Charlene感想：
我看以后我还是旅行结婚比较好~~去外国注册结婚！省些麻烦！真的真的顶不顺政府的麻烦！申请什么都是慢慢的，多多文件要准备好，又这个不能那个不能。做么你要搞到我们人民那么痛苦！！！像我申请的ptptn这样，能够签名的只能是这些这些人，其他都不能！你以为这些人很容易找的啊？签错一个就fail你！haiz~~应该派些人去观察学习别国是怎样处理这些问题啦...但是又是很麻烦的事，派人出去，只有浪费公款！haiz~~我们还在第三国家，忍耐吧~~~

倒霉的一天^^unlucky

hari raya 到了~土著都忙着过年去了...我和男友特地跑到sunway pyramid去买月饼给我妈...因为她指明要富山月饼的火腿...而我们也走走街再回...回的时候真是气死人了！！！短短不到一分钟可以到出口的车程，居然塞了差不多15分钟！！！真是够力咯...我看多半是为了抢车位或停在一旁给parking fee惹的祸！！

好了，塞完了...差不多回到男友家的时候...好死不死，居然来了警察block!!!!!我男友因为没绑安全带，被吃了RM15!!! 真是够力咯~~因为他们居然守在转弯路角，根本就来不及绑嘛~而且又是死角，根本就看不到他们嘛~~而且又是住宅区，80%以上的人都是没绑安全带的~~就这样，白白给了他们红包了~~~haiz~~~

hari raya arrived~~~my bf and i went to sunway pyramid to buy mooncake for my mum...coz she pointed to us, she only wan foh san mooncake...after bought the mooncake, we aso go window shopping since parking is same rate for the 1st 3 hours...but...nightmare came~~~~~the 1 min path to the exit, we sucked there for about 15 mins!!!!! omg! i think most probably is those rush for parking lot or pay for parking fees!!!

finally, we went out from there...but...when nearly reach my bf house, the police block.....my bf 4got to put up safety belt...then he eat us rm15 for kopi!!!!! coz they stand-by at the turning corner!!!!! we only c them when reach the turning point...plus there is resident area...most of us didnt put up safety belt de...haiz~~~then...gv them free-kopi liao lor...haiz~~~

我的假期^^my holidays^^

放假了...在家做虫做猪的日子又到了...最近啊...弟迷上了用PPS看戏，爸爸也是...妹妹也是...只有妈咪没有，因为她不会用...哈哈~~不过她回到家时已经很晚了，都没什么时间追戏...最多也只是看《古灵精探b》而已...所以啊，个个人都抢着用我的电脑...但是，上网费又不是我出的，自然没什么选择权...这时候，弟弟的作用就最大了，因为一直以来都是他付的...

sweet holidays~~~the time to be worm and pig at home~~recently, my brother is fall in love by using PPS to wathc movie...my father also...of course, my sister too...only my mother is not in love with it...but tis is because she dont know how to use~~~haha~~~but usually she finish work at late night, so not much time to watch other movie...at most only watch ...thus, everyone is quarrelling for my laptop!!!! but...streamyx fees are not paid by me, thus i have no voting right or choosing right...at this point, my brother is the king!!!! why? coz he paid the bill all the time~

坚持到底！stay till the end!

吴克群-爱太痛，是我目前心情的写照。曾经试着离开你，却忍不住想你。觉得自已真的很没用。也许害怕寂寞，害怕孤单，害怕被留下...

心情不是很好...唉...

算了，有机会再解释吧...后天就考试了...除了教朋友补习那些部分，其他的我都还没温习...先准备考试吧！！！

好想去唱k啊！！！！！！！！！！！！！！！！为什么星期日贵到离谱！！！只因为它是国庆日前夕！！什么烂借口嘛！不理了！多几天的周末我要去唱！尽情地唱！！yeah~~~~~happy~~~

爱情三部曲^^the three steps in love^^

爱情三部曲 ^^the three steps in love^^

爱情三部曲：刻骨铭心的过去值得我用心地去怀念；十指紧扣的现在值得我努力地去经营；开心美好的将来值得我用心地去实现。

曾经有一段美好的爱情，但是我却不懂得珍惜。直到失去了，到了无可挽回的地步，才发觉自已真的已经失去了。大方祝福和放弃一个你所爱的人，需要很大的勇气。我无法做到这一点。也许是我不够大方；也许是我没有勇气。除非我自已放弃了，不然我是不会放手的。虽然明知坚持也无法挽回，但是不死心地我还是试了。最后你还是离我远去。虽然不是初恋，但是这段感情却比它来得可贵，更加得刻骨铭心。虽然已是过去式的，但是还是值得我去怀念。

离开了他，遇见了你。偶然的巧遇，新的恋情萌芽了。彼此的心都不是向着对方，却因为在一起的快乐；我们终于心连心。很开心遇见了你，改写了我生命，照亮了我。在一起3年了，还是甜蜜蜜，偶尔的吵架还是有的，但是不至于致命。我们都了解彼此所需，努力地去配合对方。虽然怨言还是有的，但是都是甜蜜的。对于我的一切，你总是照顾周到。我和你，十指紧扣的现在，我很努力地去经营，不让任何人打扰我们的爱情。

将来，遥不可及的将来，你我无法预料。但是，我希望它是开心美好的。因为有了目标，我很用心努力地让它去实现。童话故事里美好的结局将会是我们的终点。

有了刻骨铭心的过去，让我更加珍惜和真诚地对待十指紧扣的我们，也让我更加努力地去实现属于我们的开心美好的将来。

The three steps of love: Past, bear in mind; Present, hold us tightly; Future, happiness and brightness

In my past, there was a relationship that i missed. It was a wonderful relationship. Till the chance gone, till it reached the step that would never be back to the past, i only realised i missed the chance. Bless and let go ur beloved, u need braveness. Unfortunely, i didnt success in this point, mayb i not generous enough, mayb i not brave enough. Although i noe it will never beback, i still insist to wait. At the end, the result never changed, u still leave me alone. Even though u r not my first love, it more treasure than it, more valuable. Athough it is a past, it still worth to me to remember it till the end of my life.

I met u after he leave me. New relationship started to plant into my heart. Although initially both of us r not stick together, due to the happiness that v hv made, we finally heart-to-heart. I feel glad to meet u, where it changed my life and brighten me along. Sweet in this 3 years time, quarrel to tight us. We understand the needs of both, we tried best to meet opponent's needs. About me, u always treat me well and stay besides me when i need u. Me n u, tight stickly, i tried my best to manage our love, dun let others to distrub our love.

Future, faraway. That is not something that u n me can estimate. But, i hope that it is happiness and goodliness. Due to the target, i tried very hard to let it comes true. The happy ending of tale story will be my goal.

A past that made me bear in my mind, has made me treasure and treat our tighly love sincerely, it also made me tried my best to accomplish my goal.

第一次^^my first time^^

15th August 2009

Hilton Hotel, Kuala Lumpur

Athena & James Wedding Dinner

第一次出席那么高级的婚礼...(>.<) 好三八哦...(>.<) 还有...第一次穿那么成熟...第一次穿那么低胸!!!!!害我一整晚都好不自在哦~不过...效果出来好不错啦~(^.^)还有哦...穿成那样，被人说可爱...哈哈...不过，我个人也认为是可爱多过性感啦...毕竟性感对我而言有点陌生遥远...哈哈...

First time attend so high-class wedding dinner...(>.<) oops, so innocent...(>.<) and, i first time wear so mature dress...first time wear so deeeeeeeeeeeeeeeep V dress!!!!! make me whole night keep adjusting only~but luckily the effects are very good~(^.^) and, wear like tat, ppl said 'cute'...haha...but, i personally aso think cute more than sexy lar...anyway sexy still strange and far from me...haha...

Hilton hotel的巧克力超好吃的!!!而且巧克力盒也超美的~~~虽然一人只有一个...但是，贪心的我，一个是不够的!!!!所以...我悄悄地去别桌寻找...哈哈...我一共带走了10盒...包括一个空心的,其他的都满满巧克力...哈哈...

Chocolate from Hilton Hotel reali nice!!!! n the box aso nice~~~although 1 ppl is allow to hv 1 box...but, i m greed, 1 is not enough!!!!!!!!!!! so...i went to other tables to search for left behind boxes...haha...i grabbed 10 boxes...including 1 is empty, others all full of chocolate...haha...

求婚???我还不要叻!!!不要那么早结婚!!!!

will you marry me???? NOOOOOOOOO!!!! i dun wan so early be married!!!!!!!!!!!!

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